Welcome to Dad Mode Gaming, where the only thing more chaotic than a Mario Kart blue shell is trying to get two boys under 10 to agree on a game. I’m Rowan – gamer, dad, screen-time negotiator, and controller untangler.
If you’re a parent who loves games and wants to share the joy (and occasional controller) with your kids, you’re in the right place. This guide is your starter pack for bonding through pixels without losing your sanity.
When Should You Start Gaming with Your Kids?
Short answer? When they start asking to play.
Long answer? Look for signs like:
- They’re curious about your games
- They can handle a controller (without chewing on it)
- They can follow basic rules or patterns
I started gaming with my oldest when he was about 4. Modern controllers are really tricky to use compared to what I had as a kid! Try to avoid 3D games with double stick controls – it’s too confusing when they are starting out. I’ve found Minecraft Dungeons to be a perfect starter game, they love it, and they get a nice easy starter to get used to modern controllers.
🕹️ Pro Tip: Start with games that require no reading and minimal frustration. Co-op is better than versus – unless you’re okay being pwned by a 6-year-old.
Best First Games for Kids Under 10
These are Rowan-tested and Dad-approved:
| Game | Why It Rocks | Platform |
|---|---|---|
| Mario Kart 8 Deluxe | Fun, fast, forgiving | Switch |
| LEGO Star Wars / Marvel / Jurassic | Simple controls, funny, co-op | Switch, Xbox, PS |
| Super Mario Odyssey | Exploration, no pressure | Switch |
| Minecraft (Creative Mode) | Creativity without creepers | All |
| Minecraft Dungeons | Simple Controls to get used to the controllers | All |
| Untitled Goose Game | Honking chaos = bonding | Switch, PC |
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What Gaming Teaches (and What It Doesn’t)
Skills they’ll learn:
- Problem solving
- Timing & reflexes
- Teamwork (especially in co-op)
What they won’t magically learn:
- Sharing controllers
- Accepting defeat with grace
- How to play quietly while you’re on a Zoom call
So yes, gaming is great — just not a substitute for parenting (or earplugs).
Gear That Makes It Easier
Here’s the gear that’s made our sessions go from meltdown to mellow:
- 🎧 Kids’ Headsets: Volume-limited, durable
- 🎮 Extra Controllers: Because fights happen
- ⏲️ Screen Time Timers: Let the clock be the bad guy
Dad Tips for Maximum Fun (and Minimum Stress)
- Set expectations: “30 minutes, one game.”
- Don’t force it: If they’re not into Zelda, it’s okay. You’ll survive.
- Laugh a lot: The first time your kid accidentally throws a banana backwards in Mario Kart and hits you? That’s parenting magic.
Final Thoughts
Gaming with your kids isn’t about winning. It’s about being there – whether you’re building a Minecraft zoo or watching them gleefully defeat you in Smash Bros.
So plug in, press start, and embrace the chaos. This is Dad Mode, and you’re officially in it.
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